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WHY CANT DAD OR MUM GIVE THESE SET OF KIDS FREEDOM?

WHY CANT DAD OR MUM GIVE THESE SET OF KIDS FREEDOM?
There are set of kids in families, that the parents don’t really, or actually give freedom,
Despite how old they seems to be or get either young or old they might be aswell. Why?
What made me to write about this topic?......  I talked with a client of mine last night and we were talking I slept off, so when I woke up this morning late, so while taking my shower Mum started calling me like lots of times because she had an early lecture to deliver to her undergraduates students this was actually whats on my mind “to drop her off to school” but whats on her mind was……. “Hope this son of mine is not yet out ton visit some friends” now shes actually checking on me!
Come to think of it why cant Mum or Dad give these sets of kids freedom?
Actually I have been in whole lot of stuffs before, I was actually involved in lamp burns, due to some certain traumas I did face when I was a kid made me to vow to do lots of things when I grow up I might have said because I was “trumatized” both by the…..,
Ø  STRESSFUL SCHOOL-GOING,
Ø  D.M.G.S MASS BULLING,
Ø  OTHER PARENTS FLOGGING,
Ø  AND ALSO BEEN THE FIRST MALE DUDE ISH AT HOME RESPONSIBILITY.
Growing up was filled with lots of challenges and fun.
Such as: Fighting tho I did fought once with an obosi girl Nkiru when I was 8 and she used kitchen knife to slice below my eyes.
Climbing & Walking on 10ft  house fences, Wheel barrow fights while fetching water, Playing foot ball? No I don’t but I love the wing 2 because my immediate younger brother Obumneke chisolum normally plays it @holy land, playing the school drums only on practice, but am actually the girls man/kid then because I love playing “oga games, games start and I can actually run so fast but I don’t think I have athletic body….. trust me it was fun!!! .
But why cant mum or dad give me my deserved freedom?
It seems like it not actually real? Or whats the freedom for? Lots of questions popping up in our mind right? But just know there are thousands of grown up, married, single, engaged and divorced people both young and old going through this same parental problem and the wear there Suit & Tie like they are ok but are not.
·         IS THIS PROBLEM PSYCHOLOGICAL?
·         DO WE NEED THERAPY?
·         IS THIS PROBLEM FROM THE PARENTS?
·         DO THEY DO IT ON PURPOSE?
·         BUT IS IT THE WILL OF GOD FOR US?
Its like am actually talking too much but some of us do face it.

Seasons greetings 

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