Been hurt is not an easy thing to go through in life, it
hurts a lot and has lots of psychological issues attached to it.
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Some hurts ends in depression
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Some hurts can end in mental homes or death as
the case may be.
Instance:
There was a time I visited the mental home long ago, there i
found out that a young lady there has not talked to someone for days since her
family members brought her there because she was mentally sick, when I tried to
check on the history of why she was brought there I found out that her husband
to be called off her wedding on the D-day of her wedding.
There she deviated from normality to abnormality , she became
depressed, became lonesome, stopped talking to people and finally hated men.
My note:
This was too much for a young psychology student as of then,
but with whats going on in the world now I guess this instance I gave happens
every other day and some just cry abit and move on, while some just die out of
it or enter into depressive episodes and loose touch with reality.
Why do people doesn't stay
put while they hurt?
1.
Its because they gave in all there all like some
says.
2.
Scared of been rejected.
3.
Scared that they would love there personality in
the society.
4.
Want some friends to intercede for them.
But finally some people are good in handling hurts and they
move on, while some are not that’s were our personality traits comes to play a
role and also our parental upbringing acts as a guide too.
Watch out for my new post “blocking negative thoughts” don’t forget to share our post to friends and families.
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