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Complications.
Can I talk to you?
Are you free to listen to me?
Reply me pls!
Hello dear am free you can, depending on what you want to talk about, so feel free am a psychology student I don't know a lot but I know few.
She: the thing is this am facing depression am a lady and am in my late 30's I am well to do, but let me ask do you mind talking to me?
Yes I am so bring it on.
I am a graduate, I have a salon and a press.
I still stay with my mum and am the last and I do well, etc
OK now what is the issues here?
She: am fat and I don't know what to do about about it and I seem not fit for those that love me and they all come chop and go why can't I get a man of mine own?
Kay: after lots of advice's✔
She: can I have your number pls, sure you can.
Lots of calls, text messages, emotions sets in now I guess I became too attached jeez it's unethical💔
Hey can we meet up? She said after lots of postings, yes let's meet up, venue? My office.
After that it grew worse, morning calls, afternoon sms, night calls emails and Fax's.

Hey I only did this because you said you had a question to ask me? Huh
After months.
Can you marry me?
Oh sorry i ment let's get married?
Kay can you hear me? Or what am I loosing it?
Kay: no my dear your not your just saying how you feel and indeed I respect you for it but really am still an undergraduate, broke, and trying to  find footing in the society.
Her: it doesn't matter Kay babe I have got you and that's all matters your such a good guy respects me, talks so sensible, understands me, cares about my feelings and you are always there to pick up my calls and your the kind of man I need. If you think your people won't listen to us let's travel overseas OK.
Complications💥
Kay: thinking aloud how do I cope with this?
But this has always been my dreams to travel out, get to see the world and live overseas💯
Do I accept or not?
But indeed she's not what I have imagined like the mental picture of how my wife will be.
I remember writing down in my memo pad: she will be tall, busty, hairy, fair, have dimple, Christian, intelligent, sweet, playful, knows how to drive, etc etc.
She's got only one out my type really that's not her.
How do I let her know that really I wished our relationship is professional? How do I let her know that really am sorry for been there for her and let move on.
I started using withdrawal pattern and there I go.
Wasn't easy too tho because I was in too deep.
Ending of last year I heard your married am so happy for you finding your Mister right, am happy too for myself I did well from the memories of 5 years ago💯


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