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Feelings of Parent's.

Feelings of parent's.
Some won't say!
Hey there
Sometimes look at your parent's,
you will see (notice) that as the days goes by they become more scared of what you will become.
If you will still love them when they are old,
If you will still care for them when they are old,
They are scared of what will happen when you marry,
When you leave the country,
When your not by their side,
When you leave the house to get yours,
They are always constantly thinking will you love them back like they do to you?
Yes dad/mum,
Am 30+ but they look at you like 1month old that can't handle him/herself.
They will always say you don't understand how the world work's.
They kept saying you have no idea of how life's changing can be what life can turn you to.
But deep down they miss you but they will not let you see it.
Sometimes they cry inside especially for their girl child unlike boys some will stay in hustle and be sending money whilst they want to see them and bond.
Girl child,
they scared of what the husband of their daughter might turn out to be tomorrow, will he allow their daughter's to visit?
How far will he take our daughter?
Which state, region, country?
Will he mistreat her?
Will he love her like he said?
Will he respect her?
Will she be healthy in the marriage?
Boy child,
 they are always out to make ends meet..
Yeah they send some home, but we want to see them more often.
Now the woman he's going to marry what will be her gain?
To destroy us?
Bound us together?
Tell my son that we are witches n wizards?
Will she take Him back to their family to go build structures for them?
Will he remember us the parent's.
Will she love him as a husband or stress and complain so much to drive him nuts?
Will she love him to support him?

Am sorry am writing this!
But this is some questions some parents have in theirs thought processes but will not ask, speak up, and all.
Don't forget that the more your parents age the more their views about things change.
"Love yours".
Spend time with them,
Its not all about gifts, its all about bonding!
Kay
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