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Do you still have friends?

Do you still have friends when Data is off?
I was scrolling my newsfeed when I saw this picture with a very distinctive message and it really ministered to me to really evaluate myself and I came up with this.
Data beingn off could be this
You might be going through life’s struggle that really requires you having a friend that motivates you to push forward!
You might be in a very bad psychological state that needs you to actually open up to someone that could understand you without judging you knowing you are not perfect!!
You might be in the hospital bed hoping when you really can move out of here not knowing that you will be dead soon because the issue is terminal!!!
Worse scenario is you might be dead!!!!
Maybe you are in an abusive relationship that you are about to go crazy because of how you are treated!!!!
Maybe you are owing your rent and don’t know who to turn to for help!!!!
What about you that told someone your dreams to help you and they bought it from you for free?
What about those classmates you aided now they are in better position to help you but they blocked your number and all you get is a call drop tone?
What about you that are looking out for suicide as the best escape plan?
What about you that owe a lot of people and there’s no future hope of paying back?
What about you? Your kids, siblings, mum, dad a lot of people are looking up to and they have no iota of idea that you can’t keep even yourself together?
Now I ask again do you have friends when your Data is off.
Every day I live like it’s my last, every time I feel like I'mm not worth it. Reason being that I let a lot to weigh me down, I lost myself so many times, I lost myself trying to love others, I never knew I can’t give what I don’t have. I never knew it was in me to succeed, those moments I died and woke up. God was like, "my son, you have a lot to do in life and my kingdom." I'm so confused Lord! Where do I start? Who will I be under his shadow and footsteps? You will figure it all out son!
Listen to this:
Doctors don’t have relationships because once the patents are healed and discharged they forget the doctor and move on until maybe 20-30 years when they have such serious complication again (MY THOUGHT), so when I learnt this view from myself, I calmed down and stopped saying people are users (that’s a bias when it comes to my belief ).
I'm the doctor here, once I'm done saving their lives, advising them, showing them love, motivating them, giving them unconditional positive regards, all they do is to move away from me.
The reason is because they are healed. You should be grateful that you have healed them and their job with you is done.
When I was asked in an interview ‘DO YOU HAVE FRIENDS?’  I looked at the presenter and said I KNOW LOTS OF PEOPLE & THEY KNOW ME TOO.
Data is not only when you turn it off from your phone, it can also signify a lot too.
Kay Obum.
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